I grew up in a country that believes strongly in the pigmentation of one's skin.
I was born into a large family in Sophiatown, Johannesburg. Out of ten children, five of us had albinism and five did not. I was the ninth! It was a surprise to my parents when they had their first child with albinism. Neither they nor anyone in either of their families had the condition.
My parents were extremely supportive. I always respected my father for refusing to let his extended family have a say in our lives. His sisters were extremely discriminatory, refusing to see my siblings and I. I often used to ask myself: why did my mother continue having children despite the risk that they might be born with albinism? It’s painful to think that during her pregnancies, it was never a question whether the baby would be a boy or girl. It was always whether or not they would have albinism. But my parents never seemed to be affected by these concerns. They accepted us as a gift and nurtured us with love and respect.
“We were the only family in Meadowlands to have children with albinism. Nobody in my community wished to have a person with albinism born into their family. People would never want to be touched by me because they thought albinism was contagious. They did not understand that albinism was a disability.”
We grew up during the time of apartheid in South Africa. When I was five years old, we were forcibly removed from our home and moved to a western township, Meadowlands, where we still reside. A lot of separation was happening, even in schools. It was a very difficult time for my family. Our move to Meadowlands meant we had to walk 10km to get to school every day. But my father was insistent that my siblings and I would get a good education. He instilled in us that we must read and learn. I would read again and again to make sure my results at school were in the top 5. My listening skills were sharpened because I could rarely read what was written on the board. I had to be better and work twice as hard as my peers. I used my education to defend myself.